Our New Addition

This is Maddie.  She is a gentle sweet dog (for the most part) and good spirited.  But, the times when she smiles seem rare, and are joyous occasions.  I managed to capture this smile before she would only show me the back of her head.

Our beloved pembroke welsh corgi, Daisy,  passed away a few weeks ago.  It was very sudden and very traumatic. Skotte, my mom and I decided to visit the local shelter at Lollypop Farm as emotional therapy.  We needed to see live animals, doing live animal things.  It helped immensely.

We also fell quite in love with one dog in particular. On our first visit, we just looked at all of the dogs and cats, and Skotte looked at rabbits and pigs, too.  We didn’t meet anyone in particular.  But we thought about Maddie all the way home.  We obsessively checked their website to see if she was gone.  We finally went back a few days later, both of my parents, too, armed with the task of investigating each and every dog and cat to see what ones we liked.  We would meet in the middle of the aisle and compare notes.

We were going to get both a dog and cat, but the people at the shelter suggested getting one first. One thing was unanimous – we all LOVED Maddie, and wanted to meet with her.  So, we signed up and waited.

We all met in an enclosed area outside.  I took a seat on a bench, and watched as Maddie went from one person to another, sniffing, smelling, and investigating.  It started sprinkling outside, so we moved inside to a private room.

I sat down on the floor to get on her level.  She sat down next to me, and gave me a kiss!  I was hooked!

Everyone agreed, and an hour later we had New Dog in the back of the van leaping around to look out each window.

Her name is Maddie, but Mom wanted to call her Happy or Prancer.  Dad calls her Mandy, and I sometimes call her Maggie (which was the name of the cat I wanted).  So we named her Madrigal (we are a musical family afterall) “Maddie” HappyPrancer (to make Mom happy, and because she does prance) McGee (because she’s an investigator like on NCIS).  Again, that is Madrigal “Maddie” HappyPrancer McGee.

As foreshadowing, I will tell you that Maddie is definitely a “Simple Dog.”  If you’ve never read Hyperbole and a Half, please check out this entry.  It’s hilarious, but also explains the terms “simple dog” and “helper dog”. Daisy the corgi was definitely a helper.  It’s interesting to have a new dog in the house, and see how the two are similar and different.

Ever feel like having 69 kids of your own?

My Real Simple magazine just arrived.

There’s a delightful blurb written by Julia Edelstein (pg 14) about a woman in Russia who gave birth to sixty nine children. The information comes straight from Guinness World Records.

  1. 16 pairs of twins
  2. 7 sets of triplets
  3. 4 sets of quadruplets

Can you imagine taking care of that many kids? All of the diapers, and crying, and hurt knees, the laundry, the food preparation… when did she sleep???

Of course, I am sure she also received 69 times the love of a sweet hug from a happy child.

Thank your mom!  She’s a hero!

National Coming Out Day

Today is National Coming Out Day in the United States.

To understand more of the history of this day, I went to hrc.org (Human Rights Campaign) to learn more.  According to their site, on this day in 1987, there was a march on Washington, D.C. for gay and lesbian rights.  It was only the second march of its kind.  Also, this was the first time the NAMES Project Quilt was displayed.  This quilt was made in remembrance of those who died from AIDS.

Over on Wikipedia, I learned that it’s not just here in the U.S., but observed by many countries all over the world.

What does this day mean today?

The Daily Illini, a University of Illinois independent student newspaper,  has a paragraph from an editorial page that I quite like.

Coming Out Day isn’t just for people who are coming out. It’s also about the community at large being there to support them after they have made that step of trust. Don’t let anyone step out and not find strong support ready to catch them.

About.com has a list of ways people can observe the day.  One suggestion they make is:

Speak About It

Grab your cell or cam and create a YouTube video expressing your feelings about being LGBT. You can also share your coming out story or vid about how you support your LGBT loved ones. Don’t stop there: Write about free sexual identity and gender expression on your Facebook Wall; Twitter your followers about your support for LGBT causes; or share a story on your blog or vlog.

Over on Facebook, I donated my status to the Human Rights Campaign.

It doesn’t matter if you are gay, straight, or queer.  The important thing is to speak up, if you feel strongly about LGBTQ rights.  Which I do!

More to come…

“Murder She Wrote”

Lately I've been listening to this series as I sit at my computer doing work, compliments of Netflix.  I still love the story lines as much now as I did when I was a teenager.  One thing I always wondered though… why did the cops always let her help???  Maybe in a small town that would work out. Were her credentials really good enough for the cops to share information with her??? 

Even so, I can forgive that if it's not realistic.  I still love Jessica's wit, charm, and intelligence.  She can get along with just about anyone, but don't get on her bad side because she will find a way to stick it to you! 

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Poetry – What if…

What if I had said I loved you?
What if I had said I cared?
Would the past have stayed untainted?
I have wondered all these years.

What if I had gone the distance?
Would I have remained in your heart?
Or was I just a convenience
to keep your mind off something else?

What if I had met you
that day in the park?
Could we have even endured our time apart?

What if I had hugged you,
that night while we were drunk?
Would you be here with me now,
Would my heart still be tearing apart?

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