Junk Drawer January

Junk drawers are usually full. Full of important office-type equipment – pens, pencils, paperclips, various kinds of tape, erasers, markers, and odds and ends that don’t otherwise have homes. They are the DOOM BOX of cabinetry. You have to clean them out now and again, in order to find items you thought you’d lost, realize there is no optimal way of organizing this weird claptrap collection of bits and bobs, and to re-lose items until the next cleaning.

I feel like 2024 has been the junk drawer of years in a lot of ways. It is time for a good clean-out to start the year fresh. So many things feel up in the air, and topsy turvy. There is no good way of making things feel right again, probably not for some time. But, we might find some valuable gems in the process.

Hold on to those precious valuables that you find along the way. Cherish the friends who help you laugh during the hard times. Eat dessert first and savor each bite. Stop and smell the roses. Listen to the ear worm that is stuck in your head.

As we collectively look back at 2024 and the pandemic years that came before, let us dance into 2025 with a good pen and a blank sheet of paper to create something new.

Happy New Year!

Should old acquaintance be forgot
And never brought to mind?
Should old acquaintance be forgot
In the days of
auld lang syne?

For auld lang syne, my dear
For auld lang syne
We’ll drink a cup of kindness yet
For the sake of auld lang syne

Cheers to you, Uncle Eric! You are missed so much and will never be forgotten.

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Autism/AuDHD/AHDH Virtually Newsletter

This is the 4th issue of our first volume of newsletters. I’m not sure what to say about it, except it is a labor of love, and really fun to create these with Jenn. I will also share the 3 previous issues below.

I hope you might take a look at these to learn more about what people with Autism, AHDH, and both AuDHD experience. There are things that are very similar, and there are things that go in diametrically opposite directions, making executive functioning very difficult. I have learned so much about myself throughout this process. I feel like I still know very little, even though I’ve been learning about it all for quite a long time.

Jenn is an amazing person, and very dedicated to giving other parents the support she needed as a mom with a child on the spectrum. She has since learned that she is also on the spectrum with ADHD herself. I’m going to share resources here, as I work my way through organizing everything.

If you have a question you want me to answer, send it to: dearcoriander at gmail dot com. If I don’t know the answer, I will find someone who can help!

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December 2024
November 2024
October 2024
September 2024

December Daydreaming

I am in full Christmasy mode. I’ve been watching a holiday movie every day since November 1st and keeping a list here at Letterboxd. The uplifting messages have helped raise my general mood from the depression of November’s US political results

I also made a phone version!

I have been in a whirlwind of grief – from the death of my uncle, and from the US state of political affairs. As a transmasculine person, I am concerned for women’s rights, LGBTQ+ rights, immigrant rights, racial justice, and disability rights. We’ve been here before though, and will probably continue to fight for a long time. I am here and queer and I won’t be silent.

So, on one hand, I am consumed with angst and worry. On the other hand, I know the best revenge is to keep living a good life. I choose JOY. With the BIG letters.

What do you hope Santa brings to you?

I am content to have a quiet day with my mom, aunt and dog.

Maybe a new pair of Doc Martens.

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